Why The Answers Aren’t Coming (And How to Let Them In)

How to find your way when nothing seems to be working

There are moments in life when it feels like the answers should just appear.

You’ve done the work. You’ve searched. You’ve put in the effort, hoping it would all make sense. You’ve asked the right questions, focused with intent, and trusted that the breakthrough would come soon.

Yet, despite your best efforts, the clarity you’re longing for doesn’t come. Instead, you’re left standing still, wondering why the Universe seems silent. It’s as if the answers are locked behind a door that won’t open, no matter how hard you knock.

I’ve been there. I’ve spent endless nights pondering the same questions, praying for a sign, and still feeling lost. I kept searching, seeking guidance, hoping that something—anything—would finally click. But no matter how hard I tried, I felt more disconnected than ever.

The good thing about spending so much time in that space is that, sooner or later, you start to recognize the patterns at play. You begin to see the underlying reasons why the answers are staying out of reach. And that’s exactly what happened to me. After finding myself in and out of that space more times than I can count, it eventually became clear why the answers I so desperately needed weren’t coming.

Now, I want to share those insights with you.